A Season of Change... Student, Father, Commerce Guy
I recently described myself as a person who is slow and hesitant to make changes. The setting was an open mic feedback time during a members' meeting at church, and the topic was the new timing and nature of our services on Sunday mornings. My feedback was quite positive, but as I sat down I realized that I'm either incredibly wrong about the kind of person I am or have been acting extremely out of character lately!
My life couldn't possibly handle any more changes right now (so I say). I recently went back to school to pursue a Masters of Divinity at SBTS in Louisville, KY. As a "going back to school gift," my wife surprised me with the news that she was six weeks pregnant (now 11 weeks!). I was dense enough to think she was just hinting at wanting to have children at first, but pulling out a onesie with a hand painted "My daddy goes to Southern." on it tipped me off. I still requested a "second opinion", and the weekend test confirmed it... I am indeed going to be a dad come September. Woohoo! 
So, grad student, first time father... not very compatible roles to play if you cherish sleep at all. But I couldn't stop there. I also finally decided to leave behind my job of 3.5 years and join Commerce Guys, a young Drupal company specializing in e-commerce sites using, you guessed it, Ubercart. Perfect fit? You bet!
The original Commerce Guys, Mike O'Connor and Tim Hill, have been using Ubercart since the alpha releases of a couple years ago. I hooked up with Mike at Drupalcon Boston and roomed with him during Drupalcon Szeged. Mike and Tim also made it down for last summer's Ubercamp, and we all had a rockin' good time. When the offer came in for a position as a Commerce Guy, it didn't take much deliberation on my part.
I had wanted to move toward full time Drupal work within a web development company for some time. I received some good counsel from Robert Douglass during and following Do It With Drupal and ended up doing a card sorting exercise he recommended with my wife. The goal was to figure out what I was looking for in a job, and I decided that in the short term I wanted opportunities for growth and increased pay, more flexibility (i.e. work remotely), the opportunity to continue working on Ubercart if possible, and continued chances to travel with my wife (and soon family). Don't think you can find exactly what you want doing Drupal full time? Think again. 
My family and friends were very supportive and excited about my decision to move, but I was honestly blown away by the unexpected support from the Drupal community. There was a good show of support in the news post on Ubercart.org, some personal cheers via chat, and a host of tweets from Drupallers on Twitter (including one I might frame
). A big thanks to everyone for their support. I'm excited about the move and have been enjoying working from bed and my favorite coffee shop already! 






Comments
#1 congrats on the baby man and
Submitted by danielmolano (not verified) on Sat, 02/28/2009 - 03:21.
congrats on the baby man and good luck with school and you will always have our support no matter what you decide to do. you have a tremendous amount of skills and talent that need to be put to good use somewhere. Thanks and take care
#2 Congratulations Ryan!!!!!!
Submitted by Rob Loach (not verified) on Sat, 02/28/2009 - 04:00.
Congratulations Ryan!!!!!! See you at Drupalcon!
#3 Congrats on changes, Ryan,
Submitted by Boris Mann (not verified) on Sat, 02/28/2009 - 05:28.
Congrats on changes, Ryan, feels like a long time coming. I look forward to catching up in DC around all the finer details.
#4 Awesomeness I've had a gift
Submitted by Simon Hobbs (not verified) on Sat, 02/28/2009 - 05:42.
Awesomeness
I've had a gift in mind waiting for this news! See you in DC
#5 Cool read! Congrats!
Submitted by Per André (not verified) on Sat, 02/28/2009 - 05:57.
Cool read! Congrats!
#6 Hey Ryan, congrats to you,
Submitted by Robert Douglass (not verified) on Sat, 02/28/2009 - 07:18.
Hey Ryan, congrats to you, your familiy, and Commerce Guys. The people in your life are lucky to have you, and benefit from your careful decision making.
#7 Hey Ryan, wow thats great to
Submitted by Jakob Perry (not verified) on Sat, 02/28/2009 - 12:03.
Hey Ryan, wow thats great to hear on all fronts!
going with CommerceGuys is a great right step, and I can only see it making ubercart development move faster and better =D
heh you're going to get a real ubercart beanie baby! http://livetest.ubercart.org/uc1/files/imagecache/product/files/beanie_0...
Cheers!
~Jake
#8 Congrats again. I like the
Submitted by greggles (not verified) on Sat, 02/28/2009 - 12:29.
Congrats again.
I like the idea of card-sorting for jobs. Can you share the details of what words/ideas you had on your cards?
#9 Yes, it would be good to
Submitted by BryanSD (not verified) on Sat, 02/28/2009 - 15:40.
Yes, it would be good to hear more about this "card system". Though as busy as Ryan is going to be in the next few years...perhaps his system contains two decks of cards!
Ryan, since I was someone who finished his Master's with a new baby in house...I'll give it to you straight. The good news is while you're working on a paper or research at 3 AM in the morning...you're already up to take care of that crying or hungry baby. This helps out the mother too! The bad news is while you're working on a paper or research at 3 AM in the morning...you're already up to take care of that crying or hungry baby.
-Bryan
#10 haha Very funny. Will be
Submitted by Ryan on Sat, 02/28/2009 - 18:00.
haha Very funny.
Will be sure to pass that on to my wife. I'm sure she'll get a kick out of it and appreciate me pulling those all-nighters. 
#11 Sure thing! He basically
Submitted by Ryan on Sun, 03/01/2009 - 22:54.
Sure thing! He basically gave me a list of facets of possible jobs, and I added/altered a few things. The idea was just to rank things in term of priority and take those into employment conversations. Robert said it can feel kind of silly, but magic seems to happen as a result. It indeed turned out to be really helpful for me, as I wasn't unhappy where I was but I had this vague feeling for a while that I wanted something more. A lot of it came down to increased flexibility and opportunities for more pay. Here are the items I ranked (not in the order I ranked them):
Make good money ($70k-$100k)
Make great money ($100k-150k)
Get wealthy (make >$150k plus stock in a valuable company)
Work on Drupal modules
Work on Ubercart core
Work on Drupal core
Work with clients doing module development
Work with clients doing training
Work with clients building sites
Part of an established company
Part of a startup
Ownership in a company
Plan new Ubercart products
Author technical books
Travel very little
Travel with family
Travel a lot (meaning, alone : ( )
Have less than a 40 hour work week
Have a 40 hour work week
Have a more than 45 hour work week
Have a more than 50 hour work week
Have flexible hours
Work remotely
Work in an office
Move to a new location for work
Have more vacation time
Go to conferences
Host conferences
I did this with my wife and also made up a separate list of tasks and priorities for us as a family. These were personal goals and motivations related to our shared vision for the future of our family. I grouped these by specific things we want to do and underlying priorities just to keep it clear for us that even if the "things" didn't work out, we would carry the same set of priorities into some other group of things.
It was all helpful, and Christina says she appreciated my leadership in that.
#12 Congratulations! Kids
Submitted by Shaun (not verified) on Tue, 03/17/2009 - 13:36.
Congratulations!
Kids change so much. But you never reget it (well not for very long anyways).